Intimacy outside of sex– to what end?

November 17, 2017

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I’m in a sweet state of allure after getting the most beautiful night’s rest in the arms of an incredible woman. I must have spent about 10% of the night fully asleep and the rest of it in this mellow space between sleep and wakefulness. I was enjoying it too much to fully fall asleep. […]

Affirmations, Poems, and Songs To Get You Through The Rough Times

November 14, 2017

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In the last few weeks, I have constantly been overwhelmed by things I can’t control. This constant overwhelming feeling can eventually lead to feeling powerless. When this feeling of powerlessness comes, I turn to affirmations. Affirmations are really important otherwise you could go mad. Literally! You have to somehow believe that there is light at […]

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You’re good enough when you say you’re good enough – #ColorsRNotShame

October 17, 2017

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You’re good enough only when you believe you’re good enough. Let that thought sink in. Relying on outsiders for validation is a dangerous thing. Yet, that is exactly how society functions. Humans are raised to compete against one another- for the best grades in school, from a very young age to promotions at work. And even more […]

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Dykeroad– Six years on

October 10, 2017

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Como Oct. 2017

Recently, I was planning a catching up with a former colleague and was thinking of how I would reply her when she asked me the standard, ‘What are you up to these days?’ My thoughts were focused on how to explain that I finally embraced my calling to do some pretty awesome gay shit. It […]

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Some People Are Gay. Get Over It!

June 21, 2016

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The entire week has been a moving week for my family and I. I stumbled on my old stonewall T-shirt and I suddenly understood the meaning of the message ‘Some People Are Gay. Get Over It!’ We just moved to a new house and the move has been really bittersweet and nostalgic. I found so many […]

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President Buhari, it’s OK to say gay

June 20, 2016

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Buhari’s seemingly innocuous statement calling the Orlando shooting a ‘criminal’ & ‘cowardly’ act conveniently omits that the targeted victims were LGBT. Source: President Buhari, it’s OK to say gay

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Learning to Love Yourself- My Love/Hate/Love Hair Affair

January 22, 2016

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I did something very cool this week. I started the week by cutting my hair short. In my life, this should not be a big deal. I’ve had short hair of varying lengths for the past 8 years. I had really really short hair, punk cuts, and mohawks but this particular cut was a big […]